What Makes a Good Youth Soccer Coach

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Coaching Beyond Winning
A youth coach who is direct, communicates well, and values effort is loved by all youth players of all ages and levels. Players want to ramp up and be competitive. This ramp-up is controlled by the coach. Ramp-up is just that. Sideline fun is expected and needed. The kids have stress, tests, and life going on. The putting on of shoes and socks and getting ready part of soccer needs to be fun. A coach needs to take each player’s temperature and know their playersβ load. Warm-up is warm-up, concentration is built, and players start to activate. Then intense, direct, well-planned practice ramps up to the full competition phase of practice. This is when the ideas of practice are tied together in an amazing game/drill. This is fun. This is why we grind and play. The coach controls the environment. There is a known flow created, and the expectation is communicated consistently over practices. Great practices from great coaches just fly by and look effortless. Parents will comment, ‘I can’t believe how much you get out of the kids.’ This is a coach’s greatest compliment from a parent or observer. Kids thrive. A coach needs to be the ring leader. In my opinion, the coach needs a huge dose of cool. A good coach has that memorable personality that changes lives that the kids gravitate towards. Kids run from most adults, but with the best coaches, they flock toward them. Most coaches don’t have ‘it.’ Most coaches don’t even know how to try. This is not about being players’ friends’ cool. This is role model cool. Players will say, ‘I want to be like him/her.’ Parents will start to hear phrases and nicknames the coach says commonly around the house. Parents will start to hear from their kids, ‘That is not what the coach says,’ in response to parent tactic advice in the car. This is the magic of a good coach. A new trusted voice. When you see, when a player sees the ‘it’ factor of a great coach, it is obvious. Like something bit you. These coaches are not cocky. They never tell you they are the best. They are humble. They don’t want it (winning) so bad, just bad enough. They are tough and fair, just not jerks. It is a fine line that most coaches are completely missing the mark on. The youth coaching job takes work. A ton of time, energy, and effort. Many of these youth ‘professional coaches’ have four teams and just become tired, numb, almost institutional, and don’t put in the real effort that youth coaching requires.
